Some guys might ask – “why on hell would I find a cougar to date?” Even though May-December relationships are already widely accepted if the lady is “May” and the guy is “December”, that is not the case among cougars. Yes! Double standards still exist in this modern world we live in. Anyway, back to the million dollar question about wanting to date a cougar; here is what I have to say – “why on help would you not want to date cougar?”
I know that the term “cougar” has long been regarded as a lowly term to define a woman in her 40s who is dating a younger guy; a guy young enough to be her youngest son! On the contrary, cougar is actually a term of power. Did you not hear that “40 is the new 20” and that “age is just a number”? If you ask me, being called a cougar is not insulting and I’d much rather take it as a complement. That simply means that I am old enough to say that I have had a taste of all kinds of guys but is still hot enough to catch a young fish. Now tell me if that is not a sign of power and ageless beauty and if that is not a good enough reason to find a cougar.
Also, cougars are mature women who are ready to commit in a relationship. Like I said, they have seen it all and because of that they are not fleeting when it comes to relationships. Let us be true to ourselves, young men can be a little shallow and it takes a strong, mature, and level-headed cougar to make relationships with them work. I am not saying that young ladies are not great in relationships; the odds are just greater with cougars. So tell me, is that not a reason good enough to find a cougar?
Moreover, I cannot adequately stress that cougars are strong individuals and you need a woman like that to handle the stress brought about by May-December relationships. Whether we like it or not, people are going to talk about those kinds of relationships and “the talk” is not going to be pleasant. Cougars are called names that are hard to swallow. It will be like high school all over again with the entire world as your bully. Cougars can handle that! Believe me, they can. Their age comes with strength that only time and experience can offer. So you can expect that even when the going gets tough, the cougar gets going. That is yet another reason to find a cougar.
Lastly, there is nothing more adrenalin-pumping than a relationship that comes with a challenge. The “you-and-me-against-the-world” love story never gets old and boy can it make any relationship become steamier. So if you want to be in a solid yet constantly thrilling relationship, go find a cougar. If I may suggest, try cougar dating sites. Cougars there are more experienced and more confident with themselves.
